You need help moving, I'm there. My little sister moved a couple years ago and had just sliced her finger. I wrapped and packed up her whole kitchen and helped her move in to a second story walk up.
Friends need a dog sitter for a honeymoon? Last minute trip out of town? I'm there. Just leave some hard cider in the fridge.
Having a bad day and you want to unwind at happy hour? I'm there. I think I can skip the gym and be there for you.
What I'm realizing is, it's not always good thing to be a people pleaser. Say no every now and then.
Do what you want to do and try not to let what others say bother you.
This has filled my head lately, knowing that I most likely disappointed people by backing out of a get together, after many others had backed out.
There comes a time in your life when you have to do what's best for you. Do what you want to do and not let others influence you to do something you don't want to do.
Life is short.
Live it for you.